“Hmm… I’m just thinking, can I have… your phone number?”
I like engaging women in a way that amuses me. This shows that you don’t take her or life seriously and creates an immediate emotional impact. It also shows non-neediness. Here you can see I subvert the normal scenario of ordering a coffee into a number close, as my opener.
“my phone number?I don’t know about that youre a man off the street!”
I look up at menu, “Do you have your phone number here?”
She actually looks up at the menu list on wall which is funny!
“Is it up there?”
“Do you want me to pour it into a coffee” She enters into the game.
“You’re cute” Showing that the playful game has a clear intent that I’m there genuinely for her.
“Do i have to order a croissant with it?” Micro release of pressure in playful way.
“I don’t normally do this!
“but can I though?” I actually soften my voice and flip from joker to sincere when I deliver this. To go from funny ballsy guy to sincere vulnerable guy.
“…Im john can i give you a call tonight” The last impression she has of me is critical in the interaction and is the bit which eliminates the flake. I give her a long melting look in her eyes and soft sexual delivery, to put pressure on her as to whether she was serious and to solidify the close.
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