Archive for August, 2011
Often girls will find it awkward being approached in a direct manner in non-social environments such as on the street, in a park, bookshop, supermarket etc, however this is not their desired ambient reaction – infact most girls dream about being stopped in a flourish by a brave man – whatever the location. They are socially conditioned to react defensively through society and its norms, education, parents, paranoia, media scaremongering and so on. By simply calling out the ‘awkwardness’ of the situation she can see you ‘get it’ and you go from the weird socially uncalibrated guy, to the brave guy that has put himself on the line despite this challenge.
This ‘awkwardness’ arising in society has the effect of making everyone behave on ‘Ant Autopilot’ “with nothing really human required of us, simply to keep the ant colony we live in buzzing along in an efficient, polite manner”. For instance, we don’t make eye contact on public transport, nor do we speak to strangers in public. By presenting someones own behaviour to them, it reminds them that they have become a slave to the system, which snaps them out of ant autopilot and into the reality which you offer – one which is free and emancipated from this oppressive society. The effect is powerful and can make the difference when approaching beautiful women wherever you are.
Ok so my trip to Aus is nearly up so here are a few things that have surprised me about Melbourne:
every light switch and toilet is exactly the same,
how much better the coffee is and how much pride they put into making it,
the quality of the graffiti,
the friendliness and chilledness of everyone,
there is a restaurant called Gaylord and Cum Den,
their ‘cold’ winter is our ‘mild’ October,
there are no chavs,
the amount of sushi shops
the ephemeral weather,
the hidden backstreets are where the coolest bars and cafes are,
how easy the city centre is laid out yet how disorientated it makes you feel
how little amount of black people there are, but how many chinese people there are,
the marmite here is pretend marmite.
you can get done for walking across road on a red man,
how much american-english there is in the language,
a duvet is a duna,
Burger King is called Hungry Jacks,
there is a cheese called Coon,
how much more straightforward it is to ask girls on dates,
aussie football is the only sport that exists – and it’s shit.
a pint of beer costs twice as much as a glass of wine,
the australian notes looks like monopoly money and you can’t rip it or crumple it.
you’re not obliged to leave tips in restaurants,
they only drive ugly hondas, toyotas or ford cars,
the amazing ‘double’ rainbows
how expensive bananas are (2 quid a banana)
a wog is a greek/italian
Here’s an example of how you can use your environment and situational stuff to chat up women. Here I subvert the interviewing girl into the one being interviewed by me as a possible date!
If there was a video that totally sums up my style and my philosophy it would be this.
Now some things to take note of here – technically i get rejected twice right? Yet do I paint the picture of a withdrawn and down beat man at the end? My primary objective was the fun of the interaction and the girls 2nd. Even though i don’t get on a date, I have won the game already in my eyes. This shows to the girl that i am unaffected, showing abundance and confidence. This is attractive and somewhere you want to get to.
When you create this primary objective, in this case of having fun – you create a ‘forcefield’ around you and nothing bad can ever happen.
Since being in Melbourne, I’ve noticed Australians finish their sentences with an ‘invisible question mark’ or as Stephen Fry calls it, ‘The Australian Questioning Intonation’. No matter how powerful the statement you are making, by using this upwards tonality it creates a desire for approval which signals a lack of self-confidence.
One simple principle which tends to get overlooked in the community, is the power of not blinking when you are cranking up the heat with a girl. Think about the Pressure/release principle in action here. If you are blinking constantly you are micro-releasing sexual pressure all the time, whereas if you are holding the gaze then massive amount of sexual pressure is being exerted…