The John Cooper

There’s a lot of talk about inner game within the PUA community. Guys want to know how to be more confident and charismatic with women.  Then when you see them walking about town and interacting amongst fellow humans there is this dissassociation – like passing ships in the night.  I’ll stay out of your way if you stay out of mine is the mentality OR I’ll wait until im in the bar or social environment before I turn on the charm and charisma.  I even hear guys say to me, “Why are you wasting your time talking to her man, she’s ugly”.  We are all guilty of being swept up in this illusion. You can either be one of these sheep, and a slave to the system or break free and start BEING the person you want to be, which means being like that with everyone.

Giving Unconditionally

Just as the video demonstrates, when you go into an interaction, you must think of your role as being one of giving unconditionally, not taking. If you can give with no expectation of reciprocity, that’s unconditional, and that is how it must be.  You have to clear your motives, foster a karmic attitide of “c’est la vie,” and give from a place of overflow. In other words, if we are a tree, we give from the fruits, not the seeds.

Law of attraction

We are constantly expressing an energetic vibrational version of ourselves all the time in the form of ‘vibes’. We often say things like “He or she has got a really good vibe about them”. These are magnetic vibrations creating our reality all the time. The fear and stress of society works against us, and we absorb that. We then give off the low vibrational state and we attract stressful, fearful states and energies towards us. If we hold onto anger then angry people come into our lives. If we play the victim role, the victim vibe goes out and the victim circumstance comes in. We attract to us people, places, opportunities, lack of opportunities, money, no money,  luck, bad luck, by our state of being – WE create it.  When we emit love , we create a very new reality  and we draw in a reflection of that. It’s just a choice.

Homework

Go out this week and each day show 10 random acts of kindness to strangers.  If you really understand what this is about, you will move from it being a one off exercise, to a way of being and that is when the true inner game alchemy begins.

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