DO YOU REALISE WHAT YOU'VE DONE?

Dear John,

It is not about the girls, not about attraction or how to make them want
to have sex that I have learned these days. I learned to let go and by
doing that I am more and more free. I am afraid I will not recognize the
place that I am returning to, I will not recognize the city that I've
been living in for fifteen years because now I see the world
differently. I now feel like writing poetry and music about what I feel
when I meet women, John! This might actually be the thing that I was
telling you is missing from my unfinished songs. Read these lines about
how I felt when I met Katia from Ukraine at Starbucks this morning:

"You are Vienna, I am Budapest.

You are elegant, stylish and polite.
I am a bit dirtier but raw and intense.

Nothingness now starts to make sense

You are Vienna I am Budapest."

The actual words or quality of the expression above is not important just
as the fact that the outcome when interacting is not important. What is
important is that
it comes from Truth.

Do you realize what you have uncovered? You have opened something for the world to
benefit. I will teach your art through music, poetry or whatever form of
expression I might find can better deliver the message. I want others
to see what Isee.

Cheers

BEFORE EVERY BREAKTHROUGH THERE IS A BREAKDOWN...

Last night I was moved to tears after a simple hug.

So why was that?

Well I’ve shared the last 5 days in Barcelona with these incredible souls.

They have all helped me transcend some deep rooted fears and given me a new
perspective on how I interact and show up in the world. The tears were
of joy and gratitude because I was giving my love unconditionally in
that moment and completely detached myself from any outcome or
expectation. It’s hard to even describe in words because it was a
feeling that erupted inside of me.

So thank you John, Samuel and Chris for your guidance and wisdom, and Ádám & Sean for your
support. And of course the crazy fun times and laughs we have all shared

And then John Cooper came in. When he spoke I couldn’t even breath. It was an incredible experience, his every word touched me.

If I had to highlight some critical parts it’d be these: „All you need is within
you in this moment.” Yep, you can be whole, because the love you need is
within you, and if you listen to it, you can feel it.

Live your own wholeness, because this is the only way you can add to others life, too.
And who gives can lose nothing. It is a strange paradox but the more you give, the more you get.
And with this incredible momentum and energy I left the training with I got back to my life with full of emotions.

What fascinating is that I experienced mindblowing things immediately the
day after the training. I was leaving from work and going back to home
when 3 different guys came to me and told me after 5 minute of
acquaintance how sexy I was or left me with a hug, moved by „the
touching vibe of mine”.

I was just astonished. With that mindset and
love that I had I got reflected it back from the world. It was like
standing in front of a mirror and illuminate it with a lamp. So much
light reflected back like it was almost more than I could handle.
Basically I could give with this energy fully to everyone I met since then, and I noticed that everybody wants to be with me.

John, I don’t know what happened with me on that training what shifted me
like this, but I enjoy every moment of my life unbelievebly.

I am present. I love who I am and I can accept others more this way, too.
I must mention that I seem to be a novice in this world as a woman, but
it makes it more interesting and I have great plans with this are of my
life!

All in all, who experience these feelings and mindset at once, won’t be able to live life other way after that.

I just want to say thank you.

Guys I've just finished a five day residential with John in Budapest and wanted to share my experiences with you.

Firstly John has completely inverted my whole way of thinking and my whole
mindset on life, women and how I project myself to the world he is a
true gent and I am for ever thankful.Before I went on residential I was quite reserved guy and the only women that came into my life where the friend of friends type or the occasional one
night stand so I read the Game and started to ingest some of the pick
up material that I'm sure many of us have found online that is when I
first came across John in one of his videos.

What really attracted me
to john was his whole outlook, with women and life in general, this
whole concept of playing and pick up without pick up it sounded so
natural and something we should all naturally be doing and something I
wanted in my life.

Also Johns belief that we are the gift and coming from that place we can't
experience rejection. At first I was a little apprehensive about
traveling away to learn how to be better with women I believe as men
this can take a huge blow to are ego's the realisation that we are not
as good as we could be with women. I guess this is something we have to
accept and become more open to change and with Johns it came along
easier than I'd expected...

Hey everyone. Just wanted to say that I actually met up with John last weekend in Budapest and got a few hours of instruction in the
ways of Social Heartistry. Like a lot of guys, I studied pickup starting
with “The Game” and found it to be largely artificial and
dissatisfying. I eventually gave up on it, but still had been searching
for a way to bring my true self without fear in social interactions,
especially with
women.

Since I’m fairly spiritually minded, I had often
heard of the concept of “speaking from the heart center”…something
which sounds real nice, but was also a little too abstract. I didn’t
know how really to put it into practice. John put me through some very
practical exercises which showed me exactly how do it. All I can say now
is that I feel like a completely different person. I no longer feel
stress or fear when interacting with women that I find attractive. Nor
do I feel as self conscious in social settings. Once you truly start
coming from the heart, your only regret will be that you haven’t been
doing it earlier. This is some truly transcendental, life-changing
stuff, and I highly recommend Johns course to everyone. If everyone practiced
Social Heartistry, the world would be a much better place.

I spent a week with John in Barcelona this summer. It was by far one of the hardest and most rewarding weeks I have ever gone through
and I am grateful to John for the amount of heart and soul he poured
into working with me, pushing me through intense growing pains and old
hurts.

I had come out of a longterm relationship 4 months earlier and was ready to get serious about creating the kind of
life i wanted with women with no more waffling about. For the longest
time i had been reading on forums and watching youtube "how to" videos
but had no way of knowing what was really sound advice and how to put it
all together and my friends were no wiser. I was wary about all the
dating coaches that seemed to spring up everywhere with more or less
dubious methods, ethics and credentials and didn’t want to throw a lot
of money away on something that would make me feel dishonest and like a
fraud. I called a few coaching bureaus to try to get a feel for what
kind of people they were and i got a recommendation for John and when we
talked I could feel that we were on the same page. Authentic,
assertive, honest expression with no “gamey” flavors.

I flew down to Barcelona a few weeks later. We started out easy with
simple things which still challenged me a lot like saying hello to
strangers. Seems so simple and natural now but was a big challenge back
then, because I wasn’t used to that openness. All through the week I was
struck by how at home he seemed at the nightclubs, bars and lazy
promenades, when pushing me to get past my fear of being rejected and be
honest about what I feeling and noticing in the moment. A lot of the
exercises triggered pain of feeling unlovable and flawed which
consciously and unconsciously had kept me away from knowing my real self
and realizing how to be whole and joyful. Thats what this kind of work
is. Drawing out and working with pain that has been covered by coping
and defense mechanisms for years. The relation with women showed me deep
truths about where I had hurts that needed attention and John was able
to give me a lot of understanding and tools to work with and I continue
to use them every day.

I learned to get the attention of women that I was attracted to and to give them the gift of
my vulnerable self to find common ground to talk from and explore
together. And because the residential was so intense and over a whole
week, the new habits, skills, and insights had a chance to solidify in
me so that i could feel real differences in my life when I returned. The
principles have gotten more and more clear as time passes and with
practice. Undoubtably the best money i have spent on self development,
ever, and I recommend John’s work to anyone serious about changing their
life with women.